I once was a rebel.
Stubborn.
Hard-headed.
Disobedient.
One of the first things God began transforming after I was gifted with salvation was my rebellious nature. God truly had His work cut out for Him. After years of willful disobedience, through God’s grace, I committed to obeying and serving Him.
After salvation, a believer’s life has a new trajectory directed toward God. Obedience to God is the hallmark of a renewed holy life.
Our obedience demonstrates to people to whom our allegiance belongs. When we choose God before our own self-serving desires, we demonstrate that we love Him above all else, even ourselves.
Now by this we know that we have come to know God: if we keep His commandments. The one who says “I have come to know God” and yet does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in such a person. —1 John 2:3-4
As a new believer, I was fully committed to obeying God. I made it my passion. My mission. However, I slowly began treating obedience as my means of obtaining God’s approval and winning His favor.
When I mistreated a coworker or spoke negatively about someone, I felt tremendous guilt. I immediately thought I was at risk of losing God’s love. Somehow, I shifted from obeying God out of love to serving and obeying Him out of fear and legalistic obligation.
For this is the love of God: that we keep his commandments. And his commandments do not weigh us down…—1 John 5:3
It is important to pay attention to the order of the words in 1 John 5. God’s love comes first, then our obedience follows.
Our obedience is not what produces faith and love. Ephesians 2:8-9 tells us our saving faith is a gift from God. 1 John 4:19 tells us the only reason we love God is because He first loved us.
Therefore, our obedience should always be the result of God’s love, not a transaction we make in order to obtain His love.
Don’t get me wrong. Obedience to God’s Word and His commands are extremely important. As believers we are called to build our lives upon God’s Word as our firm foundation. We rely on the Bible for wisdom, knowledge, and peace. It is our source of security and assurance of our identity.
If we truly love God, we will seek to know Him, know His Word, and keep His commands. When our faith is genuine, obedience will be the outcome.
But what happens when we fail God?
Thankfully, God knew from the beginning of time we would fail Him. That is why God has given us His Son, Jesus. Jesus did what we could not. Jesus remained perfectly and completely obedient to the authority of God, even to the cross.
Because Jesus lives within believers, God sees us as He sees Jesus: perfectly righteous; holy; beloved daughters. Therefore, we are free to serve and obey God with all of our hearts with reckless abandon, knowing He loves us no matter what.
But whoever obeys His word, truly in this person the love of God has been perfected. By this we know that we are in him. The one who says he resides in God ought himself to walk just as Jesus walked. —1 John 2:5-6
When we disobey God and His Word, we can run boldly, unashamed, and throw ourselves upon God’s throne of grace. We honestly confess our struggle to obey Him. We pour our hearts out to Him earnestly and humbly. After humble repentance and confession, we trust God. We follow Him once again, knowing we are loved, knowing God has already poured upon us His mercy and forgiveness, knowing we are forgiven, restored, and renewed.
As I grew in my Christian walk, my entire world was changed when I began to recognize God’s love is incomprehensible and inexhaustible that even when I did not obey Him, He loved me just the same. This merciful love compelled me to choose to follow Him, serve Him, and obey Him even when I knew I did not have to. Obedience to God became my act of worship for His great love for me.
When we fail God, we remember our salvation was never based on our behavior or our level of obedience. We remember our right-standing with God is fixed and unchanging. We remember we have the fullness of God’s love and His delight.
We remember His love, and follow Him obediently again and again and again.
Where might you need to cooperate with the Holy Spirit’s work in your life in order to become more disciplined and obedient to God? How can we pray for you?
Peace and grace to you,
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Remembering that God loved me before I ever knew Him helps me to forgive myself when I mess up, knowing that He chose me first and will never stop loving me. Nothing can separate me from His love!
Robine, thank you for joining us. God’s love is so great. Even now after a few decades of being saved by his grace, I am stubborn. I want to things done my way and He is still working on me. Forgiving myself is probably one of my problem areas…I can’t let it go, I keep going back to what I did wrong and not moving on. He is definitely working with me on that. Like you I treasure the knowledge that nothing that I or anyone else can do will deter His love for all of His children.
Yes. Nothing can separate from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus. Such peace this brings.
Cindy,
Thank you for joining us and sharing on the blog today, friend. God knows we are human and will fail this side of Heaven, but we are saved by Jesus and are loved just the same, never to be separated from Him. God Bless You!
Thank you Terria for sharing this insight. Walking with the Holy Spirit is not easy and if I don’t see His light it is easy to get distracted and lose my way. Your right, I can always run to Him, confess, repent and follow. He is there, He is near, He loves me and I know won’t ever push me away! Praise God for His abundant grace and mercy! Please pray I stay focused and am near to His word in my marriage, workplace and family. God Bless!
Monica,
Thank you for sharing from your heart and joining us in the blog today. Following where The Holy Spirit guides is not always an easy path, but it is always the best path! Lifting you, your family, your marriage to Him in prayer. God Bless You, friend!
I am a believer of God and sometimes feel unsure of my position as a child of God. I desire a yearning for God’s Word and a close relationship with Him, but I feel sometimes I am no closer to God that I was when I got saved. I pray and ask for knowledge and understanding of God’s Word and being open to receive His abundant love, but sense a hindrance sometimes. I know it’s the enemy’s doing and I pray for strength to overcome it. I am also asking God to help me overcome any unbelief daily. I am fearful of disobeying God and when I do wrong, I am quick to repent and ask for forgiveness. I have to constantly remind myself that God loves me and only He can change me, no matter my past. I am starting to forgive myself of my past, although memories return to remind me. I just want to get close to God and have an intimate relationship with Him.
Thank you for being so courageous to share your journey with God! Thank you for being so open and transparent about your struggle. The most amazing thing about God is that He already knows of your struggle, your guilt, your shame…yet His love for you will never fail and will never run out. It is such a relief that we do not have to empty our hearts from all of our fears, doubts, guilt, or failure before we come to God. We run to God exactly as we are and with all that we are and allow Him to take it! God never expects that we are perfect. He only asks that we believe in His Son, Jesus. We believe that He has paid the price for us. That’s it! Even when we don’t feel it, even when we don’t see it, even when there is no physical evidence…God is at work in our lives and His love is everlasting! Be encouraged!❤️
~Terria