We were finishing up college, preparing for marriage, and eager to get on with our lives.
Right about then, we found ourselves gathered around the table.
It was battered and worn from years of service. Writings that had been crafted on paper had pressed through and left their mark. Glass rings, small etchings, and even some larger dents were visible signs of time well spent with family and friends. Many had been welcomed around this table over the years for a very intentional purpose, and now it was our turn.
They had been recommended to us by our pastor as a wise pair worth listening to. “Listen well,” he told us, “and you’ll learn how to make much of Jesus in your marriage.”
And our time at the table was real and rich.
They gently spoke of sinful temptations, and real solutions found in God’s Word.
They compassionately spoke of inevitable challenges, and the race that is worth running until the end.
They confidently spoke of lasting joy, unshakeable commitment, and the One who holds it all together by his grace.
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Fast forward to our own home years later at a designer kitchen table that we had spent years saving for. Feeling the weight of its value, we took painstaking measures to uphold its pristine look:
Tablecloths protected the polished finish.
Children were instructed to play with their toys elsewhere.
Activity around the table was limited in order to maintain a look that would impress any guest.
All was well until the day my guard was down and a certain little boy drug a sharp object deep into the table’s surface, scarring it beyond repair. Tears were shed over this now damaged possession that we had worked so hard to obtain and preserve.
But surprisingly not long after, something freeing happened.
Sweet relief poured over us when we realized the freedom of no longer having to maintain an impossible appearance. The permanent imperfections that had initially left us devastated turned out to be the open door we needed to rest and enjoy the purchase for the purpose it was intended. The scars etched in deep… a beautiful reminder of grace.
The best part? We actually started gathering at our table, and sweet fellowship began.
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As we wrap up our Galatians study this week, Paul passionately admonishes believers that it’s time to “gather at the table.” When we exchange our works, impossible self-preservation, and empty outer appearances for the new life Jesus has purchased for us with his blood, we’re freed up to bear one another’s burdens (Gal. 6:2), to sow towards what is eternal (Gal 6:8), and to boast in nothing except the cross (Gal. 6:14).
We gather not as perfectly put together people, but as broken vessels – once lost and exhausted in our own efforts – now redeemed and living in sweet fellowship with our Savior and with each other.
And our scars? Instead of holding us back, they become beautiful reminders of grace.
Are you tired of living for an empty man-made gospel?
Then pull up a chair. Embrace real freedom living. Bear the marks of Jesus.
There’s room at the table for you.
At His feet,
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{Week 6} Challenge: Gather “around the table” with someone in the family of God this week with the purpose of doing one of the following: bearing each other’s burdens, encouraging each other to not give up, or boasting in what Jesus has done for you.
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Introducing our NEW Love God Greatly study: Names of God!
Save the date and invite YOUR friends!
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I am really looking forward to this new Names of God study which will delve into God’s character and Names in such a unique way. I am believing/trusting that studying these Names and characteristics of God over these upcoming months will lead me to a fresh and deeper worship and awe of our loving God and Father during this time….
Cheryl our prayer team is already praying for all of you for this next study. I believe that God is going to show you things about Him that will deepen you love for Him. Sheila, LGG Encourager
What a great illustration! It really spoke to my heart today. Thanks for sharing ~ you all are such a blessing to so many!
Thanks for your comment Andrea! We are blessed to have you in our community!
Stacy, LGG Encourager
Beautiful illustration!! Love your insight and wisdom Whitney!!! Feel like I am in between. It depends on who I am with. I treasure times with those whom I can be real and relax with. But sadly there are some I still struggle to be myself with and it pains me bc it’s family. I am a work in progress at relaxing and being real with them and not caring what they think and say. I am working to remind myself that in Him I am enough and that He is always enough. And working to embrace who He made me to be and to stop striving for others approval. God is at work!!
Lauren thank you for sharing! I too have some people I have trouble being myself around, and I find by praying up before seeing them I am able to relax more and rest knowing that my Jesus loves me and that is enough! God is absolutely at work in all his children and we are so glad you are here!
Blessings,
Stacy, LGG Encourager
Such a beautiful post for this morning….I have learned that people are more valuable than those materials things that I have in my home….thanks Whitney!
Thanks for your comment Marilyn! We are glad you are here!
Blessings,
Stacy, LGG Encourager
Thank you so much ladies for all that you do for us. I’m looking forward to the upcoming lessons and love being a part of this wonderful group of God loving, God seeking and God living women!!
Thank you Tammy for your kind words! We are blessed to have such an awesome community of women and thankful you are here!
Blessings,
Stacy, LGG Encourager
Thanks for the study! On life’s journey, sometimes I do grow weary but today’s verse reminds us well to keep calling out to God till we see the harvest through. Will be looking forward to November 9-until then go in God’s grace.
Thank you Tootsie, we are glad you will be joining us for the next study!
Blessings,
Stacy, LGG Encourager
How good it is to know that we have our Christian brothers & sisters also watching out for us, ready to reach out with a steadying hand if we should stumble on this journey. I’m always struck by God’s instruction to use “gentleness”. He is so powerful & mighty, yet so infinitely gentle with His children. What a loving, adoring Father we have!
Donna,
As a mother of a 3 year old boy, I am always in amazement of how gentle God is with me, knowing how much more hurtful my sins must be to him then the hurt I feel when my son acts out! He is all powerful, but all loving as well. And so awesome to give us one another to gently guide us along our paths!! Thank you for your words and for being part of our community!
Blessings,
Stacy, LGG Encourager
The graphics for the new study “Names of God” are beautiful. I am filled with joyful anticipation for the new study.
Thank you Andretta, she did an amazing job with them!! We are glad you are here!
Blessings,
Stacy, LGG Encourager
I have so loved these studies and can’t wait until we do the Names of God! Exciting! One thing I would ask, and I don’t know if others may have the same problem, but the gray typing on the website is soooooo hard to read! Is there any possibility that y’all can darken it to help those of us with “old” eyes. Thank you for your consideration! God bless and shower you with His SONshine (Ephesians 5:14)
I love the illustration of gathering around the table with other believers in order to share each others burdens and to encourage one another in Christ. What do you do when you long to deepen your relationship with others in that way but can’t seem to make it happen? We have invited many friends into our home with the longing to share a deeper love with them, but cannot seem to make connections. Everyone is too busy or doesn’t want to make themselves vulnerable in the way that I do. I share my heart with others but feel that I end up pouring myself into them with little to no return. I feel discouraged that I have not been able to build the community that I so long to have and that Jesus clearly wants us to be a part of! Any suggestions?