The end of all things is at hand; therefore be self-controlled and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers. Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.
I Peter 7-11
If you were told that the world was ending next week, how would you spend the next 7 days?
I think we would probably cancel all our appointments, not go to work, pull the kids out of school and spend time with our families. We would surround ourselves with the people we love most. Well, at least that is what I would want to do.
The passage for today is a strange little passage in that Peter begins it by saying “the end of all things is near.” While we don’t know when the end will come, it does come nearer every day, doesn’t it, and so we ought to ask, what should I be doing if the end is near?
Peter has the answer. He tells us to love one another earnestly (or deeply). We are to do that by showing hospitality and using our gifts to serve others. This is the part that goes against our nature. The end is near and we are to spend it serving and loving others? We tend to be a selfish people who think about self preservation and self care first. But Peters is telling us to go against our natural inclinations and to show hospitality.
To the persecuted
During the persecution of the early church many believers were left with nothing but their lives. Some had to flee their homes and even their countries. If fellow believers did not take them in and share generously with them they would have been destitute.
We are seeing a lot of awful and terrifying acts of persecution against Christians these days. We may not have some of these persecuted people knocking on our door, just yet, but we need to be ready in our minds to selflessly and joyfully come to the aid of those who have lost everything because of their faith. Persecutions doesn’t just come through extremist groups, but even family, bosses and friends can prosecute someone for their faith. Are we ready to step up and help?
To the neighbor
Hospitality means “love for stranger” and all of us are surrounded by strangers. The people God places in our life are the people we are to love and serve. Whether it means having people into our home to share a meal or whether it means using our gifts to show love and compassion at a soup kitchen. There is no shortage of opportunities and people who need kind words, warms smiles and help.
Good hospital-ity is making your home a hospital. The idea is that friends and family and the wounded and weary people come to your home and leave helped and refreshed.
– Kevin DeYoung
To our fellow believers in Christ
We should make a special effort to love fellow Christians. These are our spiritual brothers and sisters, fellow heirs of the kingdom of God. If we are going to spend eternity together we should get to know one another. We can do this by hosting a Bible study or having people over for a potluck or game night. There are many ways in which we can build relationships and make people feel welcomed and loved.
This takes sacrifice. I’m not really thinking about physical things as much as I am thinking about time. We tend to be quite stingy with our time and it is hard for us to give up our evenings or weekends. If we don’t we will miss out on blessing others and being blessed. We should also trust that God will give us the rest that we need.
To our Family
Sadly this can be the hardest group of people for us to show hospitality to. Do your children love being at home and want to bring their friends over or would they rather be somewhere else? Does your husband look forward to coming home after a long day at work or does he dread it a bit. How do we love our family? Do we do it grudgingly, with lots of sighs, internal feelings of annoyance and thoughts like “what about me”?
Here is something to think about. How much we love Jesus comes out in the way we care and treat others.
In Matthew 25 Jesus talks about the day of judgement where he will separate the sheep from the goats. And he says to the sheep,
“For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me,”
Matthew 25:35
He calls himself a stranger in need of care and hospitality, but his followers are confused because they don’t remember seeing him in this way. He explains to them, “Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’” Matthew 25:40
Life is not about material belonging, life experiences or “me time”. It is about people. God is all about relationships and we should be too.
Freely you have received, freely give.
Matthew 10:8
Looking To Jesus,
Thank you Jen! Beautiful post!
“Here is something to think about. How much we love Jesus comes out in the way we care and treat others.” I think I need to write this down as a gentle reminder.
Blessings,
Martha
Oh thanks, Martha, that means a lot!
Love! (it’s what the Lord keeps putting on my heart) <3 Thank you. Praising God. Just shared. 😉
Love hearing that this is something that God is putting on your heart. He is a gentle teacher. 🙂
Loved your quote today about viewing our homes as hospitals….reaching out to the hurting and offering help. Ohhh how we need each other….God keeps showing me that over and over again. Pray, help, encourage, love….that’s how we need to be spending our precious days.
Thank you Jen for this great reminder!!!
I loved that quote too. He actually goes on to say how we sabotage our little “hospitals” through stress.
“And yet, too often hospitality is a nerve-wracking experience for hosts and guests alike. Instead of setting our guests at ease, we set them on edge by telling them how bad the food will be, and what a mess the house is, and how sorry we are for the kids’ behavior. We get worked up and crazy busy in all the wrong ways because we are more concerned about looking good than with doing good. So instead of our encouraging those we host, they feel compelled to encourage us with constant reassurances that everything is just fine.”
We are suppose to encourage those who come into our homes and instead we burden them with our insecurities and fish for compliments. Crazy! So thankful Jesus helps us.
Oh man, “we are more concerned about looking good than with doing good.” Thanks for sharing that. SUCH a good post today!! Love you!
Thank you so much Jen. These words have really touch my heart today. I pray that I will take them now and go out into my family, neighborhood and workplace and share this as Jesus would have us do. God Bless.
Me too Terri, studying is the easy part but actually doing it is the hard part. Your prayer is my prayer as well.
Great advice, and I agree so much, yet I find myself in sort of a quandary. I’m an introvert and kind of a loner so I don’t have many relationships, mostly just family, a couple friends and some acquaintances. I feel guilty for not wanting to have many social relationships, as I do like being alone. I love Jesus, I really do, but I find it difficult to be socially active. Do you really think that because I don’t have much desire for making friendships that I don’t love Jesus enough? I love my family so much and I love to spend time with them!
Hi Justin,
I know how you feel. I am an introvert as well and I would much rather spend time alone or with my family than we with others. It’s not that we don’t love Jesus enough, it’s just that our love for Jesus comes out in the way that we care and love others. We need to make sure that we glorify God in the way that we love our friends and family and any other people God places in our lives.
Having people over is not naturally easy for me. I find it stressful, but it always ends up being a good thing. It is good to stretch ourselves. It is one of the ways we grow.
Thanks for that Jen. Glad to hear I’m not the only one lol. I find that some people are easier to spend time with than others and those ones truly are a blessing to me. God bless!
Absolutely beautiful and timely reminder! This ‘community’ has been such a HUGE encouragement to me!! Thank you ladies!!
Thank you and I am so glad you have found encouragement here.