Honestly, I don’t care for anything dripping all over me… especially not anything sticky, gooey, or melty. I get plenty of that just being a mom {can I get an amen?!}. But, I do love this word picture of fragrant oil poured out on Aaron. It soothes and calms my soul.
Look at verses one and two of Psalm 133, “Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity! It is like the precious oil on the head, running down on the beard, on the beard of Aaron, running down on the collar of his robes!”
David is writing this psalm after he becomes king, and we find him dwelling on the beauty of the unity of the 12 tribes of Israel. He is a proud papa, surveying unity and harmony after so much turmoil in his life in particular and Israel’s life as a whole.
A picture of warm, oozy unity. Like the oil running down Aaron’s head, beard, and garments. And another beautiful word picture in verse 3, “It is like the dew of Hermon…”. Refreshing and cool, a lovely picture of what unity in the body of Christ can look like.
And when believers come together in the unity of Christ, this is the kind of beautiful picture we can present to the world. When we love, care for, encourage, bless one another— God’s unity— true unity will flow like oil from the top down, covering every part of His body….us… His people.
Sounds lovely, doesn’t it? But if you, like me, have seen the opposite of this happening in your church, your community of believers, your circle of friends, you may feel discouraged. How can this unity really be ours? How can we live this out in the flesh in the midst of our days?
In our flesh, we crave justice. We are selfish. We want our own way. Our flesh wants the opposite of true unity.
But because of the Cross, we can look at Christ and what He has done for us, and put off our selfish desires, and give up our fleshly cravings for self and competition.
As Paul is talking to the Gentiles in Ephesians 3, he describes how we can begin to grasp this:
“I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.”
As we grasp His love for us, we can then turn and love.
This is unity.
Love is to lay down your life, to give up your desires, your wants, and serve the other person instead. I John 3:16 sums up the prescription perfectly, “This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters.”
We look to what Christ has done for us, and then go forth and do the same because we have been filled with His love.
So, let me ask you:
-Do you feel God’s love for you? If not, spend some time in His Word today, dwelling on the love He has for you. {Ephesians 3 is a good place to start.}
-Do people feel loved by you? Are you pursuing unity with your brothers and sisters in Christ? If not, what steps do you need to take today to begin that process?
Please share your story and thoughts in the comments. Let’s encourage each other to walk in love and unity today!
With Love From Uganda,
Wow this is SO intertwined with what has been on my heart, what I yearn for. I wrote about it feebly yesterday. I agree, the key is knowing we’re loved!
http://www.amywalkerwrites.com/2015/02/from-striving-to-rest-part-one/
Thank you Amy for visiting with us today! I love how God works when He puts something on our heart!
I just cracked up reading your comments. The context of Scripture geography is the desert! We live our modern showers and our lingering hot baths, well, pardon me for speaking for anyone other than myself!
Donna,
Thank you for visiting us today!
I loved this short little devotional packed with truth. This is what Jesus prayed for in John 17, that we would be unified. Our selfish desires block unity. We have to humble ourselves and continually walk in the Spirit for unity to occur. Thank you for this series.
Amen, Tammy! It was an incredibly refreshing read this morning for me too! Thanks for stopping by!!! 🙂
{Marlene} LGG Encouranger
This has just come at the moment I need to hear it. Thank you. God bless you.
I’m so thankful this was a blessing to you, Harriet! Praising Him with you friend!
{Marlene} LGG Encouranger
It would be wonderful if there was a follow-up article with practical thoughts and steps that could be taken by believers to help them realize how much they are loved by God. It could include such specifics as; prayer, giving up guilt, studying the word, rest and rejuvination, how to avoid manipulation. These topics more deeply reviewed might impact a person struggling with the issue of unity in a rough world!
Sandy, wonderful suggestion! Thank you for that. I’m sure that the awesome writers here at Love God Greatly will consider it!
{Marlene} LGG Encourager
Thank you Joy, for your words from the heart. They are so timely right now, and this weeks study is helping me see MY part in unity at my church.
God’s blessings on you girl!
~Netty
Thanks for stopping by today, Netty!!
{Marlene} LGG Encourager
Thank you Joy! This is so important today, especially when churches preach and operate in such different ways. The important thing is that we are united in our purpose to love God and love others! I really appreciate the challenge to sacrifice ourselves for the purpose of unity. I have to be willing to lay down my life, as Christ laid down His life for me, in order to truly pursue unity among believers. I’m reminded again & again with this study how God does not exist to make me happy and make all my dreams come true, but to push me to be a part of something greater than myself that will ultimately bring HIM glory. Thank you for your words today!
Sara,
Beautifully said, ‘to push me to be a part of something greater than myself that will ultimately bring HIM glory’. Love that! Thank you for your sweet words today!
Martha
I’m struggling with how to love and talk to my older sister right now. She is living a life of sin but told me she believes what she is doing is fine and honoring to God. It is hard to see how she used to be a strong Christian to being so blinded by the devil. She has recently become defensive as I have started asking more questions because it is affecting the unity of our entire family. Do I step back completely and just trust God to work in her, or do I just be completely honest with her and what she is doing? how do I continue to do this in love and not frustration or anger? How do we have unity if she continues to ignore truth?
Oh, Amanda, I feel your heart hurts. It sounds like you have expressed your concerns. Now it may be time to stand aside and let God work in her situation. You will be able to continue in love when your focus is on His perfect work rather than the mess your sister is in. Your responsibility for unity is in your own words and actions which for a season may mean silence with your sister especially if she is not following Christ.
Father God, this is a situation that requires Your wisdom more than our own. Heal Amanda’s heart as she trusts her sister to You even in the hard times. Use these difficulties to draw her to Your side and give comfort.
Blessings! Amy A (LGG Encourager)
I’m having a hard time with this especially how it applies to my life. I haven’t went to church Regularly for years and I don’t have a church family to be in unity with. I have had that but the Church split and I haven’t gotten back into a full time church since.
Angela,
Sorry to hear about your church family. But I would suggest that your family, your spouse, your kids, your friends, any believers in your life, that is who you can use this for!!
Blessings to you!
Thank you Joy, I can definitely use my family. That makes me feel better. I do have unity with my husband in our love for God and others.
Hi joy, thank you for your sharing. Presently my husband and I are struggling how to speak the truth in love and maintain a unity in church.Many times,church leaders have different ways of doing and seeing things but when we voiced our concern ,it is seen as being opposition. Recently,there is some unhappiness on how the cell group is to be run so we voiced out our concern. I feel discouraged because after voicing out,we are seen as being not submissive.We respect the leaders and my husband is also leader of the church but I am struggling how to differentiate being blind submissiveness and living in unity.
Emily, Your struggle is very real and makes unity (& worship) very difficult. Submitting to the authorities over us is a choice of subjecting our desire to be right; however, there is a difference between the church doing something in a way that I wouldn’t choose to do it and doing something that will bring harm to the members or the work of Christ. Standing for right and speaking the truth in love is not breaking the bond of unity.
Mighty God, I bring Emily & her husband before You. Grant peace in this situation and show them clearly if there is more that You would have them say or do. Guide their footsteps and light the pathway so that they may see the right way.
Blessings, Amy A (LGG Encourager)
I am so blessed by this whole study on community. In fact it is exactly where God is working and leading and teaching his people across many venues right now! LGG is just one place. What awesome confirmation for this ministry and message! I will be leading a group of ladies through this study starting next week and I’m so excited. Can you tell me if my ladies and I will still have access to your blog and past videos and teachings through the end of April? God bless all of you faithful and diligent women of God.
Tori, The study materials and blog posts will still be available. If you haven’t already registered as a facilitator, you can do that at this link. http://bit.ly/1x842Ie
This form has instructions on how to join a facilitator support group either on FB or through email.
Blessings, Amy A (LGG Encourager)
Tori…
Please send an email to [email protected] and I can help you with the past blog posts since we have closed our facilitators form now.
Martha,
LGG Leadership
Thank you Joy! Unity is all aspects of our lives is so important and something I crave! My recent struggle with unity is balancing unity of work and family life. I’ve been given talents to work and need to work to support my family but it is demanding and requires working many hours and some nights away from my family. I want to serve and help at work but I ache in my soul the nights I don’t get to see my daughter and help out at home. I’ve been trying more and more to let the work be and get home to family but now I wonder if I’m not serving enough at work – either place suffers but I’d rather that not be family. Not sure there is a scripture answer to things but any thoughts from you ladies would be much appreciated!!:)
Jessic,
Thank you for taking the time to share with us today. It’s so hard when we work demanding hours that take us away from family. I use to be a single mother and worked 2 jobs or 1 job with really long hours to take care of my son. For me personally – I had to choose to be present ‘in the moment’ with my son and let work go. I gave it my all when I was working but at the end of the day, it stayed there. It was not easy and I feel your pain of being away. Lifting you up in prayer as you navigate through this difficult season.
Blessings, Martha