You talk with your hands, just like your mom.
You laugh, just like your grandmother.
You walk, just like your father.
Have you heard comments like these before? We all possess traits passed down from our family, or simply acquired through our constant imitation. These traits serve as a reminder, even when the days feel mundane, that our daily actions are investments into the next generation. Paul weaves this reminder throughout the first chapter of his second letter to Timothy.
To Timothy, my beloved child (v 2)
I thank God whom I serve, as did my ancestors (v 3)
a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice and now, I am sure, dwells in you as well. (v 5)
Paul sees Timothy as a spiritual child, and the tone of the entire letter is instructive as he passes God-given wisdom and encouragement to him. Paul also recognizes that the line of faith did not originate with him, so he acknowledges those who served God before him. Paul’s accolades then turn to Timothy’s mother and grandmother. As an aside, whether you are a mother with children in your home or a spiritual mother to the community around you, I pray you will be encouraged by Paul’s words. Do you notice that he doesn’t highlight Timothy’s ability to send a thank you note on time, or the way he always puts his laundry in the hamper? Neither does he point out Timothy’s manners or his well-portioned organic meals (I can get so caught up in these daily concerns). Paul commends only Timothy’s faith and compliments the women who modeled faith for Timothy. As women, let’s make it our highest priority to lay a foundation of full trust in our God for the next generation.
Returning to the main point, Paul has reiterated this theme: giving and receiving from one generation to the next.
If I were Timothy, at this point I would raise my hand to interject.
“I know you think I’m faithful Paul, but I am wrestling with fear. You are in prison. My days might be numbered too. Are you sure about all of this?”
See, in the same way that faith and worship are passed down from prior generations, sinful traits have also flowed through the family tree. We are all broken people. Our best foot forward is still stained with the smudges from where we fell short. Perhaps, I’m sensitive to Timothy because I am prone to worry and fear. I could tell you countless examples from childhood of times I stewed over things far beyond my age or understanding.
If this letter were addressed to me, I would have stopped Paul at “fan into flame the gift of God,” (v 6) and insisted on a small ember only visible if someone really came looking for it. Sure Paul, I will consider serving and using my gifts but only in a behind-the-scenes way, only in a way that attracts little attention and even fewer critiques. Paul, if you really knew my past and my predispositions, then you would know the tiniest ember is really all I can handle.
“While we are addressing what the previous generations passed down, you should know I received ample amounts of fear too. I am naturally too worried, too anxious, too timid to be this bold for the gospel.”
I don’t know if that was Timothy’s retort, but if it were, Paul silences the argument. I only know it is my response today, but Paul silences my argument with four, powerful words.
For God gave us – four words, four simple words in stark contrast to the opening repetition of this letter.
for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. (v.7)
We have all inherited the stain of sin from our ancestors. It is the pesky problem of humanity that no one can escape. But God gave us – first He gave us Jesus as the sacrifice for what our flesh and sin deserved so we might experience redemption. For God gave us – the Holy Spirit living inside of us each day with the power to overcome what our flesh inherited. For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control. The wounds passed down from your family; the pain you have always carried; the sin to which you are most prone – none of this gets the final say.
What you inherited from the flesh has been overcome by what God has given you by His Spirit.
We have a new spirit, and I pray when people see me walking in power, love and self-control, they will say, “She walks just like her Father.”
Lindsay
Lindsay is a follower of Jesus living in Texas. She is the wife of a football coach and the mom of a precious son, who joined their family through the miracle of adoption. She is a writer, coffee connoisseur, and expert shoe shopper. For the last decade, she has been discipling teenage girls and believes God is doing a mighty work in the next generation. When she’s had enough coffee, she blogs at www.lindsaydsmith.com.
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I so needed to hear these words today- do not fear- thank you!! This world today is a scary place and it can be so overwhelming, but fear comes from Satan, not Jesus. We are we keep our focus on god, trust him and not fear- which is a daily struggle but I’m sure we’re all going through similar struggles. I pray for all you ladies who struggle with fear and worry as well, god is for us and with us and everything will be ok- this life is temporary and we know where we’re headed which gives me great comfort in this moment.
Dear Jessica indeed these words are so comforting. Do not fear! Fear comes from the devil and we are of God we have nothing to do with the devil. God help us to daily head his words. Amen. God bless you.
neat, we talked in our Life Group about – passing on our faith and being intentional about it 🙂
Week 5 WE ARE CALLED TO BE FAITHFUL
Monday —2 Timothy 1:1-7
SOAP 1:7 God doesn’t want us to be shy with His gifts, but bold and loving and sensible.
O= GOD has given us gifts to use. Don’t hold back. Use the gifts GOD has given us. These gifts are not meant to stay wrapped in their pretty paper. They have no use is they are not put to use .
A= I needed to hear this last week ! I made a wrong choice and I now regret. Okay here is what is going on …Since being in Maine , we found a church. In fact we picked out a church before we made our move to Maine. With Joe’s spinal cord injury and well to be honest with my knee pain its much easier just staying home. We have allowed our feelings to dictate our actions rather then taking the risk to step out of our turtle shell. I had received an invite to attend a one day conference for women at the church. A big oops. I almost went. I came up with all the excuses. Now I have too many fingers pointing at me that I missed an awesome opportunity to have stepped out of my turtle shell. My regrets have become a valuable learning lesson. Through reading the blog posting too I am reminded Joe and I need to rekindle that flame . We have grandchildren and in less then 2 months from now we will be welcoming our first great grandbaby ! With all the brokenness in their homes we are the ones who hold the key that can bring healing and break that cycle. LORD lets get that flame burning for Your glory !
P=Dear LORD, This passage is d=so timely for me. I pray Joe too will read the blog and passage. Show us the steps we need to take to make a difference to our grandchildren and that little boy we are waiting to welcome in November. We need that push to step out of our comfort zone .LORD help us ignite that flame of Your Spirit so that we can be used by You for Your glory ! In Jesus Name , Amen !
Mia your soap touched my heart deeply. I pray your prayer with you. Thank you so much for sharing this here. It means a lot. God bless you and help you. Amen. Much love.
Mia,
I completely understand what you call being in your “Turtle shell”. Because I too suffer from this. It’s not that I am a home body. I just get a lot of anxiety when I leave the house. When I go to church I absolutely hate (I know that’s a strong word but I know no other to explain how I feel) after praise and worship, the worship Pastor says to greet the person next to you, go and shake some hands and meet new people. I personally just want to be left alone. I feel so incredibly fake with this fake smile on my face and I try and avoid as many as I can. Cause there are some huggers at my church, a lot of them. 🙂 Anyways, the point I am trying to make is I stopped going to church, but I watch it online. God didn’t give us a spirit of fear and I need to push through this because the bible says we as believers should be together and support one another. I don’t feel very powerful staying in my “Turtle Shell” and I can’t give my love to others this way either. Lastly, Self-control…. Thats a whole other blog lol Sorry I wrote so much, I just identified with your blog reply. I will be praying for you and your husband. God Bless.
Shelly,
Thankyou so much for sharing from your heart with me . I thankyou for your prayers and I will pray for you as well. Lets be victorious. This morning powerful devotions and Bible study . I need to step out of my comfort zone to receive God’s blessings. Its all about trust and obey . Putting Ps. 37;3-6 into action ! My one study this morning was on Do not Judge and the other to be bold with God’s gifts ! Challenged I am ! Have a blessed day ! Friend me on facebook if you would like.
Wow, thank you, Lindsay! This was such an insightful look at some very familiar verses. I am blessed.
Terri,
I am so grateful this encouraged you. God was so faithful, as He always is, to teach my heart some important lessons from these verses. It was an honor to share through LGG. Praying you have a blessed Monday.
These words really touched me today. I’ve been struggling a lot lately with fear and worry. It overcomes me. I recently decided that I needed to step up my spiritual game and really get devoted to God. Over this past week I stepped outside of my comfort zone and contact two other ladies. One is a girl from my college whom I don’t know well personally but she’s such a great role model by expressing her faith. I reached out to her and asked if we could talk about God and how she handles all of life’s struggles. Turns out we have so much in common and now are going to church together on Sunday! The other girl was an old friend from high school. We haven’t talked much in recent years. She is one of the sweetest Godly women I know and I felt bad leaving her behind and not keeping that friendship alive. But this past week we had a great conversation and are going to meet up sometime to reconnect. This isn’t in my nature since I tend to be more anti social and afraid of talking to people. But I’m so excited for the amazing people God is putting into my life lately and I’m glad I’m being brace enough to take that extra step in my faith journey!
Drew,
That is wonderful to read. I got a lot out of today’s blog. I’m kinda anti-social too. Hopefully one day soon, I too will have the courage to step out of my comfort zone as well. I watch church online. Going back to church personally is my goal. I just do not know when I will be able to achieve that. With God’s help I know I can do it. Because we can do ALL THINGS through Christ Jesus.
Good luck and congratulations on your first steps. God Bless.
Lindsay, Thank you for your clarification and your take on today’s Bible verse. I am a worrier and have fears that are often times silly. When I was little I worried constantly and I really never felt good enough. The past ten years have been especially challenging however they have taught me a lot too. Please say a prayer for me and I will for you all. I need to work on my shyness I need to share when I can and be an active Christian. I will worry less and fear less and count it all joy. Amen